Two Virginia Tech scholars, Sarah Ovink and Rose Wesche, explain that romantic films influence ideas about real relationships. Ovink says exposure to romantic stories begins in childhood; classic Disney tales and contemporary titles make romantic coupling a major plot point and celebrate "happily ever after" endings.
Wesche focuses on Hallmark-style movies and notes that they often skip conflict, financial stress, and other long-term challenges. These films commonly end when characters commit to their “one true love,” reinforcing idealised tropes.
Both experts warn that such portrayals can create unrealistic standards. If people expect movies to match real life, they may find their own relationships unsatisfying. The source highlights the gap between cinematic romance and everyday relationship complexities.
Difficult words
- scholar — a person who studies a subject at universityscholars
- exposure — the state of being shown or introduced to something
- coupling — the act of forming a romantic or sexual relationship
- conflict — a serious disagreement or problem between people
- reinforce — to make an idea or feeling stronger or firmerreinforcing
- idealised — shown as perfect and better than reality
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Discussion questions
- Can you think of a film that changed your idea of romance? Why?
- Why might filmmakers avoid showing conflict or financial stress in romantic films?
- What can people do to keep realistic expectations about relationships despite romantic films?
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