NYU researchers led by Stacey Gordon and coauthored by Ernest Gonzales describe ageism inside families. Their paper in the Journal of Gerontological Social Work explains that social norms, traditions, and negative stereotypes shape family behavior toward older members. Siblings, friends, and other relatives can pass on these ideas, sometimes as jokes or micro-aggressions.
The authors list common stereotypes: dependence, physical or cognitive impairment, loneliness, lack of interest or sexuality, and helplessness. They write that such attitudes dishonor an older person’s lifetime of skills and knowledge. Ageist treatment can reduce autonomy, power, and self-esteem.
The report notes a 2020 paper by Gordon that had more than 5,500 downloads and introduced the idea of a “critical consciousness” in families. The recent work suggests that when family members reflect and act more supportively, older adults gain hope, control, and better expectations for health. The findings and recommendations were shared on Futurity.
Difficult words
- ageism — unfair ideas or actions about older people
- stereotypes — fixed, often negative idea about a group
- micro-aggressions — small insult or negative action against someone
- autonomy — ability to make your own choices
- self-esteem — feeling good about your own value
- critical consciousness — awareness of unfair social ideas and power
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Discussion questions
- Have you seen any ageist jokes or micro-aggressions in families you know? How did people react?
- What can family members do to be more supportive to older adults in daily life? Give one or two examples.
- Why might increased support and reflection in families help older adults feel more hope and control?
