University of Georgia researchers examined links between spending and saving patterns and satisfaction with marriage and finances. The team surveyed more than 100 Georgia couples, asking husbands and wives separately about their spending and saving habits, income, and how happy they were with both their finances and their marriage. The study appears in the Journal of Financial Counseling and Planning.
Lead author Jamie Lynn Byram, a lecturer in the College of Family and Consumer Sciences, says that "Across the board, couples in which partners viewed each other as savers (rather than spenders) reported higher levels of marital happiness and financial well-being." Coauthor John Grable added that "Perceptions matter more than reality," noting that satisfaction often came from how partners saw each other rather than from objective measures. For example, couples spending more than saving still felt pleased if one partner believed saving was happening.
The research also revealed sex-based differences in how behaviours affect partners. When a wife called herself a spender, it often signalled that she felt comfortable with the couple’s money, and that comfort tended to increase her husband’s confidence in the marriage; wives reported greater satisfaction when they viewed husbands as savers. The researchers stressed that communication is essential: talking about money builds understanding and empathy so partners know why the other reacts to financial events in certain ways.
Difficult words
- examine — look at carefully or studyexamined
- survey — ask people questions to collect informationsurveyed
- perception — how someone understands or interprets somethingPerceptions
- saver — person who keeps money instead of spendingsavers
- spender — person who often uses money rather than savingspenders
- well-being — state of health, happiness, and financial security
- communication — exchange of information or discussion between people
- empathy — ability to understand another person's feelings
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Discussion questions
- How can partners' perceptions about saving or spending affect their relationship happiness? Give examples or reasons.
- Why is talking about money important for financial and marital satisfaction? Explain what talking can change.
- The study found differences in how wives' and husbands' behaviours affect satisfaction. Do you think cultural expectations about gender influence these results? Why or why not?
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